Earlier this week I was helping a client to set her goals for 2012 and my client said one goal she wanted to achieve was to be 'more wise in 2012'.
We went on to explore what this meant for her in specific terms as 'being more wise' means different things to different people.
My client explained that she wanted to 'live more peacefully in her own mind' and 'be able to share this way of being with her family and friends'.
My client wanted us to come up with a list of things she could actually do to achieve this.
We achieved her outcome for the session and my client was happy for me to share her 'Wisdom List' with you.
This may not resonate with you at all - so no promises - but if it does please leave a comment. So here's wishing you more wisdom in 2012:
- Let Go of The Past - Perhaps by practising literally letting go of in your hands whenever you think of something which has happened in the past that provokes negative thinking or feelings.
- Relax to Stay In Control of Things - Breathe in deeply into your tummy - like inflating a balloon - and then breathe out slowly as though deflating your balloon.
- Live In The Now - Practise seeing, hearing, feeling, touching and smelling what is happening around you right now, clearly using all of your senses preferably.
- Be Positive and Optimistic - Rather than negatively forecasting the day (the presentation won't go well, for instance) say to yourself 'I wonder what will happen today and I am curious to find out'.
- Be Kind to Yourself and Others
- Be Enlightened - Be grateful for what you have that is truly important to you.
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